Some consider it an acceptable occasional practice to relieve constipation, but most would frown at the idea of douching as frequently as every week (or more). Let’s face a fact: douching, using an enema, and frequently cleaning out the ass would probably be frowned upon by most healthcare specialists. This is why I almost always clean out beforehand. So while a finger check might be convincing for some, I always fear there may be stuff further up. Some guys do a pre-sex check with a lubed finger, but I do not trust my fingers, which are shorter than most of dicks I want to take. I always have to make sure things are good down there before having sex. I cannot quite believe they can do what they do, but they do it nevertheless. I respect them the way I respect firefighters and contortionists. These men have an uncanny ability to just know without a shadow of doubt that their colons are clear and ready for a pounding, no douching required. Some guys can simply tell when they’re good. Make sure you drink plenty of water to stay hydrated - something every healthy person should do anyway. Too much fiber can dehydrate you and cause cramps and hemorrhoids, so do not take more than the recommend dose.
Loose, runny stool is a nightmare to clean out. Metamucil is part of my daily routine.įiber is extremely good for you, and when it comes time to clean out your butt for sex, your stools will be compact and “together,” making cleaning considerably easier. I have not had the same good results from fiber capsules as I have from Metamucil, but some guys might. Sugar-free psyllium husk fiber can be purchased on its own, and I have even seen it sold in capsule form. In my experience, the best fiber regimens are those that come in powder form that you mix in a glass of water, and most contain psyllium husk - a natural fiber with multiple health benefits. Meat-eaters like myself benefit from fiber regimens like daily Metamucil or Benefiber to keep our runways clear. This is because they consume a high fiber diet, which cleanses the colon. My vegetarian friends say that they hardly need to clean before sex - they simply use the bathroom and are good to go. The first rule of gay sex applies to bottoms of all calibers: watch what you eat. The tips in this slideshow progress from beginner bottoms to more advanced bottoms, so if you are just beginning your magical bottoming journey, the advice at the beginning may be more useful to you than those in the back. You need years of practice, and sometimes you need tips from someone who knows what he is doing. Clearly there is a right and wrong way to do it, and a learning curve - few guys start off as bottoming champions.
At its worst, it is painful and unpleasant. At its best, bottoming is a mind-blowing and carnal experience that feels really good.
It is one of my favorite ways to pass an evening and one of the most enjoyable parts of my life. Depending on the environment - a dive bar versus a dance club, a bathhouse or a play party - I might be wearing more clothes or less, but the target is the same: men and anal sex.Īs gay men, a good portion of some of our lives will be dedicated to the art and craft of anal sex. While his tutelage never stuck, he might be surprised to learn that I still grew up to be a hunter.Īll I need is a drawstring shoulder bag carrying my keys, wallet, cell phone, and a douching bulb for emergency visits to the nearest bathroom. This was a necessity for a young boy in the South. When I was little, my father would drag my sister and me out in the cold morning in camouflage outfits and orange hats to sit with him in a deer stand and practice shooting his gun.